SybilSixx66 Posted May 3, 2015 Share Posted May 3, 2015 So yea, my mom kicked me out tonight. Said if I didn't dump my gf, I had to move out. So I'm gone. Basically my girl is going through a divorce with her ex, he came to my house, cops were called, and he was banned from the property. She still decided that I should dump her for hers and my brother's safety. Though her exact words were more like "dump her so I don't end up on tv." She found out we were still together, and said I had until nightfall to get packed and leave for good or face the police and have them show me the door. She made me buy her food and pay a couple bills after she blew her check on herself and decorating her house (which looks like a stereotypical granny house now) and was even willing and perfectly fine with spending mine and my brother's money on herself without even asking. He and I did all the work while she did nothing, claiming she did all the work in the family even though I worked harder and more hours in any given week than her for a tiny fraction of her pay. She uses threats and violence to get her way and when she doesn't she locks us in our rooms. Does this woman sound sane to anyone else because she will violently argue she is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RKM Posted May 3, 2015 Share Posted May 3, 2015 Not to sound like a prick but I think you're better off moving out if that's how things were/are for you. I know several of my own family members are just downright terrible with anything that has to do with money... to the point I don't associate with them at all anymore because all they do is beg for money. So I can somewhat relate to your issue, good luck with it though. She may only sound sane to herself but that's not really my place to go. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hagan Moskau Posted May 3, 2015 Share Posted May 3, 2015 If a person does that to you. Leave Them! There is no person on the face of this earth, that can do that to a hard working man like you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Warwizard Posted May 4, 2015 Share Posted May 4, 2015 If I had a family member is treating me like that, then I would leave. It's not good to have a family member like that treat you like a piece of crap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sergeant Politeness Posted May 4, 2015 Share Posted May 4, 2015 Family is a mental bond, not biological. Meaning, if she treats you like that then she's not family, she's a burden and a leech. Hope everything sorts itself out man! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SybilSixx66 Posted May 4, 2015 Author Share Posted May 4, 2015 Thanks guys. I've been staying with my dad and his gf the last couple days while I look and wait on payday next week. My only current worry is my dogs that I had to leave behind. She said she would be taking them off this afternoon but I hope a bag of kibble left on the doorstep will buy me some time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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